Natalie's Book of the Month Club™
Creating Connections
At the end of the book giveaway month, I’ll share my favourite insights in a monthly book club meeting, and I hope you’ll share yours as well! My intent is that this will snowball into some great takeaways for those of us interested in learning more.
From Here to the Great Unknown: Lisa Marie Presley and Riley Keough
In From Here to the Great Unknown, Lisa Marie Presley and her daughter Riley Keough share an intimate and deeply personal story of family, fame, love, grief, and resilience. Completed by Keough following her mother’s passing, the memoir draws from Lisa Marie’s own recordings and memories, alongside Keough’s reflections on the life they shared. Together, they reveal the realities behind a family that lived much of its life in the public eye, including the joys, struggles, complicated relationships, and heartbreaking losses that shaped them. Honest and emotionally raw, the book offers a rare glimpse into their bond as mother and daughter while exploring the ways we carry the people we love, even after they are gone. It is a poignant story of legacy, loss, and finding a way forward through unimaginable grief.
Theo of Golden: Allen Levi
In Theo of Golden, author Allen Levi tells the story of Theo, a quiet and thoughtful man whose simple life in a small Southern town leaves an extraordinary impact on the people around him. Through a series of interconnected lives and heartfelt encounters, the novel explores themes of kindness, friendship, purpose, and the often-overlooked ways ordinary people shape the world. As Theo’s influence ripples through his community, readers are reminded that a meaningful life is not measured by fame or achievement, but by the compassion, wisdom, and generosity we share with others. Warm, reflective, and deeply human, this novel celebrates the beauty found in everyday moments and the lasting legacy of a life well lived.
The Other Side of Change: Who We Become When Life Makes Other Plans by Maya Shankar
In The Other Side of Change: Who We Become When Life Makes Other Plans, cognitive scientist and former violin prodigy Maya Shankar explores how unexpected change can reshape not only our circumstances, but our identity, resilience, and sense of purpose. Blending neuroscience, psychology, personal experience, and conversations with people who have navigated profound life shifts, Shankar examines what happens when carefully laid plans fall apart and we are forced to adapt. Rather than viewing disruption as something purely negative, she reveals how uncertainty can become a catalyst for growth, reinvention, and deeper self-understanding. Thoughtful and compassionate, the book offers readers a hopeful perspective on navigating life’s detours with curiosity, courage, and grace.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
In The Alchemist, Brazilian author Paulo Coelho weaves a timeless fable about following one’s dreams and listening to the quiet voice within. The story follows Santiago, a young shepherd who sets out on a journey in search of treasure, only to discover that the real riches lie in self-discovery, courage, and trust in life’s unfolding path. Along the way, Coelho explores themes of purpose, intuition, and the idea that when we are aligned with our true calling, the world conspires to support us. Simple yet deeply philosophical, the novel invites readers to reflect on their own “Personal Legend” and the transformative power of pursuing what truly matters.
The Myth Of Normal by Gabor Maté
In The Myth of Normal, physician and author Gabor Maté challenges the idea that our modern way of living is truly “normal.” Drawing on decades of medical practice, research, and patient stories, Maté explores how chronic stress, trauma, and societal pressures quietly shape both our physical and emotional health. He argues that many of the illnesses we see today are not simply individual failures or genetic destiny, but reflections of a culture that often disconnects people from their bodies, communities, and authentic selves. With compassion and clarity, the book invites readers to reconsider what wellness really means and offers a hopeful path toward healing through awareness, connection, and a deeper understanding of how our lives and environments influence our well-being.
It Begins with You by Jillian Turecki
In It Begins With You, relationship coach Jillian Turecki turns the focus inward, reminding readers that the quality of our relationships is deeply tied to the relationship we have with ourselves. Through honest reflections, practical insights, and real-world examples, she explores how self-awareness, emotional responsibility, and clear boundaries shape the way we love and connect with others. Rather than offering quick fixes or fairy-tale ideals, Turecki emphasizes growth, accountability, and the courage to break old patterns. The result is a thoughtful guide that encourages readers to cultivate stronger, healthier relationships by first doing the inner work that allows love to thrive.
How to Know a Person by David Brooks
In How to Know a Person, David Brooks invites us to slow down and truly “see” others — to cast aside assumptions and instead pay attention to people’s stories, inner lives, and unspoken struggles. He argues that the real gift we can give another human is our full presence: curiosity, empathy and deep listening that make them feel heard and understood. Drawing from psychology, philosophy, history, and anecdotal portraits, he shows how genuine connection — not surface-level small talk — builds trust, meaning and community. Ultimately, the book offers a roadmap to transform relationships and even society by treating every person we meet as a layered, evolving individual — worthy of dignity, depth, and compassion.
The Art of Spending Money: by Morgan Housel
In The Art of Spending Money, Morgan Housel turns his focus from savings and investment to the often-neglected other side of the equation: how we actually use what we earn. He shows that spending isn’t just about budgets and numbers, but about the quiet interplay of envy, identity and values — why we buy what we do, and who we’re trying to become when we pay for it. His message: the biggest returns may not come from the spreadsheet but from aligning your spending with what brings peace of mind, not just status. Ultimately, the book invites us to think less about “how much” we spend and more about “what for” and “why”, so that money works for our happiness rather than the other way around.
Strong Ground: by Brené Brown
Strong Ground by Brené Brown invites readers to step into a new era of leadership—one rooted in courage, clarity, and connection. Through powerful insights drawn from years of studying what makes leaders thrive, Brown shows how authenticity and accountability can coexist to create real strength. She encourages us to see paradox and uncertainty not as obstacles, but as the terrain of growth and innovation. Each chapter builds a framework for grounding ourselves amid challenge and change, so we can lead with steadiness and heart. Ultimately, Strong Ground is a guide to standing firm in who we are while inspiring the best in others.
The Brain at Rest: by Dr. Joseph Jebelli
The Brain at Rest by Dr. Joseph Jebelli argues that our culture’s obsession with constant productivity has eclipsed a far more powerful resource: rest. He introduces the brain’s “default network,” a neural mode triggered not by hustle but by idleness, where wandering thoughts, long walks, baths, and naps unlock creativity, empathy, and deeper insight. Through science, stories, and practical tips, he shows how stepping back -rather than pushing forward -can reduce stress, improve health, and enhance problem-solving. Ultimately, the book is a brave call to reclaim downtime as essential, not optional, for a happier, more balanced life.
We Can Do Hard Things by: Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle
We Can Do Hard Things is a heartfelt and unfiltered exploration of life’s messiest moments, told through the candid voices of Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle. With honesty, humor, and deep empathy, they share personal stories that tackle love, loss, identity, and resilience. This collection of conversations reminds us that while life can be brutally hard, we are never alone in facing it—and that there’s beauty in the struggle itself.
Becoming Bulletproof by: Evy Poumpouras
Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras is a powerful guide to developing mental resilience, emotional strength, and personal safety. Drawing from her experience as a former Secret Service agent, Poumpouras shares strategies on managing fear, reading people, and handling high-stress situations. The book empowers readers to build inner strength and confidence, helping them navigate life with clarity and courage.
Sovereign Love by: Dené Logan
Sovereign Love by Dené Logan explores the journey of cultivating self-worth and healing old patterns to create healthier, more conscious relationships. Through a mix of personal insight and therapeutic guidance, Logan encourages readers to reclaim their power and stop outsourcing their value to others. The book serves as a compassionate roadmap for those seeking deeper emotional freedom and authentic connection.
The Tell by: Amy Griffin
In The Tell, Amy Griffin unravels the psychological tension between truth and perception as a young woman finds herself entangled in a web of secrets and suspicions. Set against the backdrop of a quiet suburban neighborhood, the story explores how one small lie can spiral into a life-altering revelation. As the protagonist begins to question the motives of those around her, every glance, gesture, and silence becomes a clue—or a warning. Griffin masterfully blends suspense and emotional depth in this gripping tale of trust, betrayal, and the subtle art of reading between the lines.
Man’s Search for Meaning by: Viktor E. Frankl
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl is a profound memoir and psychological exploration of his experiences as a Holocaust survivor, detailing how finding purpose can help individuals endure immense suffering. Frankl introduces logotherapy, a therapeutic approach centered on the belief that meaning is the primary driver of human life, even in the face of unimaginable adversity. Through personal stories and philosophical insights, he demonstrates that resilience and hope stem from one’s ability to assign meaning to their struggles.
Let Them by: Mel Robbins
Let Them by Mel Robbins is a book that encourages readers to embrace a mindset of radical acceptance by letting go of the need to control others. Robbins argues that trying to change people or seeking their validation only leads to frustration and self-doubt. Instead, she teaches how to focus on personal growth, set boundaries, and stop wasting energy on things beyond one’s control. Through practical advice and real-life examples, Robbins empowers readers to prioritize their happiness, trust themselves, and create a life of fulfillment by simply allowing people to be who they are—without resistance or resentment.
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by: Oliver Burkeman
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman is a thought-provoking exploration of how to live meaningfully within the finite limits of our time—about 4,000 weeks in an average lifespan. Rather than promoting hyper-efficiency, Burkeman challenges the modern obsession with productivity, urging readers to embrace their limitations and focus on what truly matters. The book combines philosophy, psychology, and practical insights to help readers shift their perspective on time, prioritizing presence and purpose over endless to-do lists.
November, 2024 Book of the Month
Revenge of the Tipping Point by: Malcolm Gladwell
In Revenge of the Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell delves into the power of social contagion by exploring how modern issues—from the opioid crisis to viral misinformation—can spread widely due to the influence of specific “superspreaders” or key events. This investigation builds on Gladwell’s original tipping point concept, highlighting the ways in which small but powerful forces can shape society in unexpected and often troubling directions
October, 2024 Book of the Month
The Gifts of Imperfection by: Brené Brown
“The Gifts of Imperfection” by Brené Brown explores the transformative power of embracing vulnerability and authenticity. In this insightful book, Brown encourages readers to let go of the pressure to be perfect and instead cultivate a sense of worthiness through self-acceptance and compassion. Drawing on her research in shame and resilience, she shares ten guideposts for whole-hearted living, emphasizing the importance of courage, connection, and self-compassion.
September, 2024 Book of the Month
Alchemy by: Rory Sutherland
Alchemy by Rory Sutherland explores the surprising power of irrational thinking in problem-solving, arguing that unconventional approaches often lead to the most innovative solutions. The book challenges the reliance on logic and data, showing how creativity and human psychology can unlock new possibilities in business and life.
June, 2024 Book of the Month
The Anxious Generation By: Johnathan Haidt
How the great rewiring of childhood is causing an epidemic of mental illness.
Our talking points for this book club meeting can be found right in the book at the end of each chapter!
May, 2024 Book of the Month
Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art By: James Nestor
Use the link below to download some of our speaking points on the book “The Gift of Fear”. There was so much good conversation and many interesting ideas!
April, 2024 Book of the Month
The Gift of Fear By: Gavin De Becker
Use the link below to download some of our speaking points on the book “The Gift of Fear”. There was so much good conversation and many interesting ideas!
March, 2024 Book of the Month
Reframe Your Brain by: Scott Adams
Below you can read or download some of the reframe ideas that our club came up with during our meeting in March. We came up with some great ones!
February, 2024 Book of the Month
Essentialism by: Greg McKeown
Feel free to scroll through some of my favourite talking points from Essentialism. These will be posted on our website as well.
January, 2024 Book of the Month
Outlive by: Dr. Peter Attia
For those of you who were asking, here are the talking points that I prepared from Outlive. Hopefully, you’ll find them helpful and informative! I know the book was a lot to digest.